Marriage Counseling

1) your sin is your sin – no one makes you sin (don’t blame your mate and don’t think that if “they” change, you won’t sin)
2) you can’t control your mates actions or responses – you are responsible for you alone (don’t try to change your mate)
3) when dealing with spirit forces, rational arguments, either way, are worthless (first you must clear the spirit world out of the way). if you try to “help” your mate understand you, frustration and further pain will often be the result  (first you must clear the spirit world out of the way by strategic, intentional surgical praying)
4) the issues that you are struggling with were developed WAY BEFORE you knew each others name (they are “below the ground” – in the past)
ISSUES THAT PRODUCE ROOTS/STRONG BRANCHES AND CAUSE ATTACHMENTS TO EXIST1) something you “did”2) something “done to you”3) something done by previous generations in your family line
* can you both email me a list of what kinds of things might be troubling you, IN YOUR OPINION (from the list below). from this list of 11 things below i will create a prayer plan for you both INDIVIDUALLY
issues that produce “electrical generators”, like we talked about this morning) – not in order of severity; any one of these may be a devastating root/trunk/branchDEVASTATING ROOTS/TRUNKS1) bitterness and resentment (Heb 12:15)2) unforgiveness (Matthew 6:15)3) rejection and abandonment (I Peter 2:4 5 and II Corinthians 4:7 10)4) pride and rebellion (Prov 16:18, I Sam 15:23)5) shame and guilt (II Cor 7:10)6) cult and occult (Leviticus 19:26)7) immorality and addiction (Ephesians 5:3)8) anger and hatred (Ephesians 4:26)9) known generational sin and curses (Exodus 34:6 7)10) inferiority and insecurities (I Peter 2:9 10)11) abuse     a) sexual     b) physical     c) psychological     d) verbal     e) spiritual     f) SRA (Satanic Ritual Abuse)